The Importance of Possessing, Rather Than Being, a Big Dick
A lot of men wish they had one and a lot of women wish they could try one – though they lie and say they don’t to protect those men who don’t. He has one. But he isn’t one.
In Europe, he’s known as Mr. 30 cm. That’s because they use the metric system over there. Silly Europeans. You already know what they call a quarter-pounder.
AVNInsider’s Scott Ross interviewed Lexington Steele about what it is like to have a huge dick. Not about having a huge dick in porn – that’s well documented.
We wanted to know what is like in the real world. Can he use his dick as weapon in a tight spot? Does he get dizzy when all that blood flows into his penis? Do women run screaming out of his bedroom when they see what they’ve gotten themselves into?
His candid responses revealed a rather modest man who claimed that life with big penis isn’t really that big of a deal – unless you’re one of the women that hooks up with it.
AVNInsider: So, Lex, how big exactly are you?
Lex: The exact measurements are eleven inches by seven inches.
AI: 11x7. Seven inches wide?
AI: And eleven inches long… I thought you were 13 inches.
L: The exaggeration does more for the companies that make the exaggeration than for me personally.
AI: So you're not the one that put that out.
L: No. I'm straight up and very accurate.
AI: Do you have a nickname for your penis?
L: Yeah. Max.
AI: As in Maximillian?
L: No, just Max. As in maximum.
AI: So, are you the biggest male performer working in adult today?
L: No, not at all. There's some guy, Mister Eighteen. Biggz is also about my size, if not larger. There's Sean Michaels, these guys are comparable in size. Mister Eighteen is obviously longer. You have Jack Napier --
AI: Is he actually 18 inches, Mister Eighteen?
L: So they say. I've never seen the guy in life but from the pictures on the boxes and the girls who have worked with him, they do say that while he's less than functional he is indeed a foot and a half. It is real. But I would say that the guy who is bigger than me size-wise, who happens to be a pretty good performer, is Mandingo.
AI: Seven inches around. That's…what would that be ...? What's a physical object that would be a similar size?
L: Say like a liter bottle of Aquafina, for instance, or a ... take about the size of a telephone in your hand and then add about two inches on it - the receiver plus two inches.
AI: Yeah, thanks for choosing the phone as an example, since we’re interviewing you on a phone. Now we have to do the interview on speakerphone.
(Pause as Ross switches to speakerphone and logs on to Suicidegirls.com to erase image of phone from head and validate heterosexuality).
How old were you when you realized that you have a big penis?
L: I would say not until I got to college. Before that I really hadn't had a lot of sex. The girls I had been with before I went to college were a lot older and they had probably seen a few dicks of size before. But it became most definite when I got to college and other girls my age who had never seen, like, you know. In college I think I was about nine inches progressing toward eleven.
AI: So, when you were 18 and in college you were nine inches and by the time you graduated you were eleven?
L: I would say by my mid-twenties I definitely topped out.
AI: Wow. I didn't know your penis still grew. Maybe I should re-measure. It's been since high school.
At 11 inches, do you have to buy special clothes?
L: No, man.
AI: I think I saw something about guys with big dicks needing special clothes on a HBO special about male strippers and then there's that Rolling Stone article about somebody with a 12-inch dick.
L: They said they had to buy special clothes? Maybe so. But me personally, no. Here's the thing about it: there are certain guys who are the same size and when they become aroused they just become hard and erect. There are other guys whose dick will grow exponentially when becoming erect.
I'm one of those guys where if my dick isn’t hard I'm not necessarily, y'know, any more than the average guy flaccid.
When I do get aroused, yeah, I do grow exponentially, so on the day to day I would have no reason to need any excess space in that particular area.
AI: No special underwear or anything?
L: Not at all. As a matter of fact I don't even wear underwear.
AI: Were you ever an underwear wearing type?
L: I've worn underwear my whole life and it's really only been like the last maybe eight years since I started not wearing underwear. It has nothing to do with sexuality. It has more to do with being comfortable, but not comfortable based or predicated upon room or lack thereof. All my pants are baggy but it's not for comfort. That's my style.
AI: What happens if you're in a room and a really hot chick walks by and you get a hard on?
L: Well, there have been problems like if I had shorts on or…I usually wear most of my clothes and pants very loose. I wear a lot of wide-leg jeans anyhow. If there's a moment where there's a little arousal I particularly know the embarrassment that can follow, not necessarily embarrassment but the difficulty with the fact that it would be all for the world to see if I was to get to full arousal. If I get excited I definitely pull back the reins, so to speak.
AI: And because you're an adult performer you probably have better control?
L: No, not because I'm a performer. I had a massive dick long before I ever started doing porno, so it's case where, over the years, you know because you're bigger and that's something that's been a part of my life so I definitely know that unless I want everybody to know that I have a hard on to really make sure that I keep myself under control.
AI: Because people would notice.
L: Yeah, but unless I want the girl to know. If I want it to be known then there's no problem.
AI: Has it ever happened to you where you didn't want people to know?
L: Hell yeah. Say, like, I'm in a movie theater with my girlfriend and she's rubbing my leg or has her hand on me, whatever, I mean, my girlfriend, Vanessa Blue, her tits are like incredible so she can pretty much get within range of me and I'm ready to go. So there's some times where I might have a sweat suit on and we left the movie theater after being close to each other and I'm damn near at a full hard on and there's no way to get up immediately and walk away because once you come out of the theater there's all that light.
Everybody's going to see you with a fucking foot-longer going down the middle of your leg.
AI: How do people react?
L: It's interesting because most people are less inclined to believe that what they are looking at is actually a dick underneath there, so people might think it's something that is in my pocket that is extending down my leg as opposed to it actually being a penis because they just can't fathom that.
AI: How far does that go? Down to your knee?
L: No! I would say about half way, a little over half way down my thigh.
AI: Has anybody ever used the line "Are you happy to see me or is that a….”
L: No. When that happens the reaction is more like "Wow!" Once they know what it is they are like "Jeez".
And a lot of times you get women who did become a lot more interested in actually seeing it and that's somewhat of an awkward situation, y'know, like "Hey, I'm not gonna pull my dick out here."
It's happened where, say, like I've been in a club or something and I'm dancing with a hot chick and she's putting her ass on my dick and I'm thinking about doing a lot more than just dancing. The girl, her first reaction will be she'll step away and turn around and for the next five or ten minutes all she's looking at is your dick just to see if her eyes are belying what she felt.
And then what'll happen is she'll turn around and look for her girlfriend or whatever and then you have the main girl and her friend both trying to watch your dick to see if in fact it was like what she felt.
AI: So sometimes women will just ask to see it?
L: It's happened. I've been on Melrose Avenue and there were two girls who recognized me. We were talking about the movies and they asked "Can we see it?" And I said, "Well, if I take my dick out right now I'm not gonna look any different from anybody else. If I take it out you're gonna have to make it that way."
So we went into the dressing room of a store and I took my dick out and both of the girls kinda stroked me up, got me hard, and they were like "Wow!" just to verify what they always enjoyed watching me on film.
It didn't lead to pretty much more than that. It was just show and tell, participatory show and tell.
AI: Have you ever had women not realize how big you were and kind of freak out?
L: Yes. A year after I came out of Syracuse I was with a girl that -- we had always wanted to fuck all through our college years. And it wasn't until about a year after we both graduated that we actually fucked and the whole time her confidence level and her ability to deal with it handily had been 100 percent and then when she actually saw my dick she was like "Oh my God".
She didn't even know if she could do it. I was like "We're only here to have fun. I'm not trying to do anything but please you." So, you will have a lot of girls who are very confident but once they see it they see it, they're like, "Wow, there are dicks that are actually that big".
AI: Do you tell women before you go into the bedroom with them?
L: No, because I don't have that type of bravado from the standpoint that I don't really boast about….
AI: Because me, I'd have it on my business card: Scott Ross, 11-inch dick. My answering machine message would be “If you’d like to leave a message for Scott Ross and/or his 11-inch dick, just wait for the beep. Unless you are a guy, in which case the message better be for Scott Ross. Only women may leave messages for Mr. Happy.”
Just so people would know.
L: No, no, like I said there's so many other things that I would want to present to a girl before I presented my dick to her. The dick thing will be overwhelming enough so there's no need to promote it. When the time is right then that's when she'll see my dick and not before.
AI: But do you think that sometimes women might find it -- well, has anybody ever backed out?
L: Yeah. I've had that happen on sets where girls have backed out completely. By the time the blowjob sequence is over and I'm 100 percent fully erect and girls have said "There's no way I'm going to be able to take you" and literally bow out, decline to do the scene.
I've had girls back out of anals where it's fourth position and we're getting ready to go for the final two positions and the girl's like "I'm not gonna take you up the ass." Not a problem.
On a personal level I've had numerous occasions…what will happen in a personal situation is with a lot of girls there's like a shock first, a shock and awe type of thing, and then curiosity takes over and once curiosity takes over I instill a little confidence, "Look, you're not gonna be hurt by this. You know, you always thought about those big dicks. Well, here's one right in front of you and this is how it's gonna feel."
Generally, once you get that curiosity going they have no problems whatsoever.
AI: So most women can handle it. Have you ever had a woman who couldn't handle it?
L: Well, yeah, it happens where it truly is painful to the female and in those cases it's better that she don't try and do it. In most cases, I'd say 99 percent of all situations, women can accommodate me without a problem. It's all in the mind.
AI: How do other men treat you, especially in the civilian world?
L: In the civilian world I'm treated no differently because once again in no circumstance will I discuss my dick with another dude, even on a confirm and comparison basis because that would be boastful, and my whole thing is where it concerns my dick is that I am not boastful because I know what’s there is there.
And in most cases where people are boastful there's more hot air than something tangible. In the gym I'm not walking around with no clothes on and if I'm in the locker room at the gym I don't have a hard on at all anyway. So it's not something that would draw attention.
And with my boys, my friends, that have seen my movies, hey, there's no problem either. We don't talk about it because when they watch my movies they watch as if they didn't know me. I'm their friend. To the consumer, I'm Lexington Steele.
AI: Are there any complications with extra blood flow or whatever?
L: No. I'm functional. There's no difference in the functionality between a three-inch penis and an 11-inch penis.
AI: Can you, like, knock stuff over? Do you have to be careful when you're walking by your breakfast table?
L: No. Nawww.
AI: It's long enough. If you could swing it and hit somebody it would probably hurt.
L: Definitely. Even in doing scenes you reach a level of excitement and energy in the scene and a lot of times when girls get over-excited in the blow job sequence and then when they begin trying to slam their mouth on my dick what they fail to realize sometimes it that it's so long it hits the back of their mouth and it's somewhat painful and you gotta say "Relax and open your jaw a little bit more than the last, girl."
AI: Have you ever just for fun tried hitting a girl in the face with your penis?
L: Naw, I've never like straight up smacked her in the face on the face but what happens with a lot of chicks is once they get that comfort zone they become playful.
I'll have girls actually pretend my dick is a microphone and sing into it and I'm like "Hey, you have fun." In some cases it is somewhat empowering to put your dick on a girl's face and it's sort of like you were knighting her. But I usually let the girls have fun with it because a lot of them haven't actually seen a size they've only heard about.
AI: So what's the most common song sung when it's being used as a microphone?
L: There's no particular tune. A lot of girls just pretend they're singing.
AI: So, some women do freak out when they see the size and that's the only really big life difference you have.
L: Yeah, some girls freak out but overwhelmingly the emotion that comes into play is curiosity because not only are they shocked that they are physically handling something that they've only heard stories about and then they begin to feel like "Hey, what is this going to feel like inside of my body?"
A lot of girls are curious. All those women that say that size doesn't matter, number one they are bullshitting; number two -- most women indeed would want to find out what it feels like in the nether regions of their birth canal. All those girls who say they would turn and run would be on their knees.
AI: Is there anything else that's different? Like when you go to the doctor for a physical?
L: No, the only difference would be the fact that if you wanted to take it there, if you wanted to show someone that you are excited, or that she is turning you on, it definitely is easy to alert her of that fact. Other than that there's nothing negative, no difficulty finding underwear or anything like that at all. It's just a matter of certain clothes that are lighter in fabric.
AI: Let's say somebody comes up and for whatever reason they know they're on the way to having a huge dick and they're asking you like "Hey, do I need to be aware of anything?"
L: No, I've never encountered that.
AI: I'm not saying you've encountered it. It's a hypothetical situation. What's the most important thing to know? Like, your sons for instance, if you have a kid he would likely have a huge penis, right? Do you know if your dad had one?
L: I literally have no idea.
AI: That's a tough question to ask.
L: I never considered my father's size and there's definitely no way I would ask him or seek to make an impression upon my own future son, so to speak, from the stand point that in the event his dick does not grow to match what his father has, and I wouldn't want to take away the fun and excitement of discovery, discovering over the years that, wow, you do have a bigger dick and it is quite amusing, that discovery.
AI: So you have no idea if this runs in your family or not?
L: I have no idea and to be quite honest, I never considered whether it did or does.
AI: I think that you handle it very well because you're emotionally mature and you recognize it for what it is --
L: Yeah, it's a dick. And my thing is it doesn't create or manifest my manhood or identify my manhood. I think a man is a man between his ears and what type of constitution he's got in his chest, in his stomach, and all kidding aside who gives a fuck how big your dick is until it's time to fuck.
Who cares who's got the biggest dick in the room if no one's getting pussy?
AI: But people do, don't they?
L: It comes up but I would say that some of the greatest men in history I would greatly doubt were also the greatest size kings in the world.
AI: Napoleon was known to have a small penis.
L: They measured it. I think it was four inches erect or less? Some of these guys, who knows -- to be honest with you, I really find myself in such a discussion or consideration of the male penis, certainly not having thought about it that much, I haven't really delved into the size of the next man --
AI: It's the extremes that seem to be the topic of conversation. When there's guys like you out there and the average is supposed to be 5 to 7 inches (studies continuously vary, so the Kinsey Institute started using 5 to 7 inches as the average size) that means there's got to be people at the lower level.
I actually met a lady who claims to have slept with a man with a one inch penis.
L: No way!
AI: Yeah, there are guys out there with a one inch penis. You think you get a weird look.
L: The converse must be horrible. There seems to finally be, as a point of clarification, how to measure and where to measure from.
A lot of guys put the ruler to the side of their dick and press it all the way back, which gives them a profile measurement, which is one and a half inches longer than it truly is.
People need to realize that a true measurement of your length is what you are from the top. Put the ruler at the top of your dick. And it goes down to your base.
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